A Little Lubrication
Okay, so I'm going through a lull - a bit of a dry patch sexually speaking one could say. Since I flinged my f buddy due to gross inconsideration, I've been laying low - just in the sex stakes, not in the life stakes. I've been swimming, surfing (or trying to), beach walking, yoga-ing (such a word?), climbing, frisbeeing and basically loving all the sun and fun on offer in Melbourne's glorious summer. I did mention somewhere along the line living voyeuristically through you guys. It's just a temporary thing. After a very active, 12-day summer hol, I'm tanned, toned, feelin' hot and just about ready to re-activate my radar prrretty soon, but in the meantime I'd love to hear about your highest sexual highs.
I mean, what makes it so great? Is it the closeness and affection you share with someone, or is it the physical act and release? Is it better when you have both the relationship and the sex or can casual sex be awesome? While I can definitely answer YES to the latter, I wonder if it's really that memorable, or whether relationship sex takes a firmer hold in our memories. I really want to try and pinpoint some specifics, like people's views on having sex while pissed or stoned (I personally prefer reality), or whether sex aids make it better. Is it the slow, attentive sex that works for you or the fast and furious? While I know it's a pretty individual thing, I'd really like to come up with a list of 10 or so things that are essential to good sex. Being out of the loop for a while, this gal needs to get herself prepared. Juji x
