The Anatomy of the Kink
Sometimes it's hard being different. People may stare at you if you dress differently from the social norm. You could be ridiculed if you don't get that new trendy haircut. Society is cruel even to people with handicaps... so why should sex be any different?
Most of us are taught that sex is dirty; that it's something that shouldn't be done, and really shouldn't even be talked about. It's only within the past ten years that it's become at least somewhat acceptable subject matter for discussion... so where does that leave us deviants?
Although sex is more accepted now than it has been in a very long time (we're still not up to par with the ancient Greeks), there is still an acceptable norm that people are expected to follow, and anything outside of that little box is considered subversive... kinky... fetish.
People shouldn't care if you like hurting someone or being hurt during sex. They shouldn't care if you tie your partner to the bed and have your way with her or him. It's nobody's business if your fantasy is to be suspended by your ankles while you're insulted and spat upon by sweaty construction workers, is it? Absolutely not! But people make it their business. That's why we have to keep quiet and practice our perversions away from prying eyes.
But there's a certain freedom in this, isn't there? Those of us "living underground" have a sort of comeraderie. Although I may think you're practices are odd... I know full well that you may think the same damn thing about me. That's why I want to start this open forum for discussion, where people can learn more about others deepest desires, dark fetishes, and secret fantasies... who knows? You may just see something you like...
Tell me about your kinks, or ask me questions about the things you just haven't had the balls to try... I'm here to help.
